What
To Expect
The
first thing you can expect when adopting is a lot of paper work! Part
of our job is to ensure that you are able to provide for a child. This
means we need proof and confirmation of everything! The following is a
list of the steps we usually follow to get you through the adoption process.
| 1. |
After
you have contacted us and decided on the type of adoption you
would like to pursue, we will send you an application. This application
asks for general personal information about you, your spouse,
your marriage, your children (if any), your education, your job,
and your intentions with adoption. This form also asks you to
give us a list of five people who are willing to act as your references.
The
application must be submitted along with copies of birth certificates,
marriage license, divorce decree(s), proof of auto insurance,
most recent W-2, pet vaccinations, military discharge, and a recent
picture of you. We also request that at this time you sign the
agency agreement, and other related forms acknowledging our requirements. |
| 2. |
After
this, we will start to process your application. If there are
any questions, or if we anticipate a problem, we will call you.
In the mean time, you continue to round-up all the documents we
need. A physical will need to be done, and a medical report submitted,
along with health insurance verification. You will also need to
start on your autobiography.
We
continue to process the application, accessing reference checks,
protective services checks, crime bureau checks, police checks,
and driver's record checks. |
| 3. |
At
this point, a social worker will be assigned your case, and will
call to arrange your homestudy meetings with you. There are typically
three meetings for a homestudy, and the process goes fairly quickly
once you start. Generally we like to schedule one meeting a week,
and after the last meeting you can expect to get a rough draft
of the study in one to two weeks. |
| 4. |
The
first homestudy meeting usually takes place at the office and
requires both parties (if a couple) to be present. This meeting
is to find out what you think about adoption. What are you hoping
for and expecting from adoption? What has led you to adoption,
and are you prepared for it? Then we want to know about your lifestyle.
What do you like to do? What is your marriage like/ What do you
enjoy about being single? If you practice a spirituality, what
type and how often? And lastly, we like to hear about your parenting
expectations. What do you hope for from your child? |
| 5. |
The
second homestudy meeting involves meeting with each person (if
a couple) separately. This part of the homestudy is about your
history. What type of childhood did you have? How were your teenage
years? Did you have any previous marriages? How do you feel about
your marriage and the decision to adopt? |
| 6. |
The
third homestudy meeting will take place in your home, and any
persons living in the home must be present. The state has varying
regulations that must be met by a foster home (which is what you
will initially be), and our social worker will be checking for
these in your home. If you do not meet some of the regulations,
you will be notified and requested to change them within a specified
amount of time. At this visit your social worker will let you
know when your study will be finished and a copy will be sent
to you. |
| 7. |
If
you are pursuing an international adoption, or a domestic transracial
adoption, we may ask to see you a fourth time. This is more for
educational purposes and to ensure you have some background in
transracial/transcultural adoptions. |
| 8. |
At
this point, you are finished with the homestudy process.
If
you are in a domestic adoption, we will ask you to create a profile
of your life and your aspirations to adopt. Your profile will
then be added to our “pool” of waiting couples, and shown to any
perspective birthparents.
If
you are pursuing international adoption, we forward your homestudy
to your international agency and the USCIS. Then we wait to hear
from you about when you expect to travel, and when you have returned
with your new child. |
| 9. |
Once
you've had a successful placement, we start post-placement visitation.
This visitation is to make sure the child is doing well, and the
family is adjusting appropriately. For a domestic adoption, after
six months you can apply for your Finalization, which is the court
date to complete your adoption. For an international adoption,
post-placement may continue for a while longer (depending on the
countries requirements), and you may apply for Re-adoption and
a new birth certificate. |
10. |
That's
it! It's a long process, but at the end you will have a beautiful
family to celebrate with. Adoption Services is here for any post-adoption
resources or services you may need. We are only a call, or a click,
away. Visit Support Services
for more information on the post-adoption resources available
to you! |
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